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No Wrong Answers
Welcome to another episode of ‘I’ve been trying to write about this for weeks but every time I try it goes haywire’. I could have waited another six months until I figured out how to write about this new language I am trying to learn how to speak, but I kind of want a record of this time when I am still figuring it out. I want to be able to track my progress. When I started riding Ava recently I made a very conscious decision to do it without anyone observing. My new way of t
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Feb 174 min read


Heavy Horse Taste on a Standardbred Budget
I'm a huge fan of the long-running medical drama Grey's Anatomy. Set in a teaching hospital in Seattle, the show follows multiple...
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Jul 26, 20255 min read


The Cake is a Lie
The woman I am sharing a lane with swims faster than I do, but takes more breaks between laps. She swims with a smooth freestyle stroke...
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Jul 25, 20255 min read


You May Be Entitled To Compensation...
It has been a strange few weeks for me. The thought I keep having is that the days are too short. Not that time is going too quickly, but...
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May 27, 20259 min read


'Yes,' With An 'if...', 'No,' With A 'but...'.
There's a lot of conjecture going around at the moment about consent in horse training. Which is no surprise, really, because an awful...
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May 8, 20255 min read


Roll Away Your Stone
'Roll away your stone, I'll roll away mine Together we will see what we will find Don't leave me alone at this time For I'm afraid of...
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Apr 21, 20256 min read


A Pocket Full of Pony Crack
It's Saturday, and all my plans for the day have been pushed aside because horsy Facebook has delivered me a miraculous gift. Two...
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Apr 7, 20254 min read


Piercing the Veil
I was stuck. Not physically stuck, but mentally, emotionally and practically stuck. How do you get from 'nervous horse person recovering...
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Mar 4, 20255 min read


Top 5 Surprising Ways Humans Are Similar to Horses.*
We have more in common with horses than we realise. But the things we have in common tend to be the things we don't really understand...
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Jan 24, 20254 min read


Never For Money, Always For Love
In the last couple of years while I've been dabbling in horses but too sick to get right into it in a practical way, I've been listening...
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Jan 24, 20253 min read


A Life Like Charlie
In January 1997 I bought a foal. I had attempted to breed a foal from my Pony Club mare, Bessie, by my friend's fabulous Crabbet Arabian...
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Jan 6, 20254 min read


Broken Women and Narcissists
A long-time horsy internet friend and excellent horsewoman was recently lamenting the sudden influx of videos in her social media feed...
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Dec 4, 20244 min read


Bad to the Bone
The prevalence of spinal and pelvic malformations and exercise-induced skeletal injuries in Thoroughbred and Standardbred racehorses is...
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Jun 30, 20244 min read


Sparky's Dream
This is Kirby. At the time of writing this, Kirby is 6 months old, and as the photo suggests he is not an especially shy kid. Kirby's...
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Jun 29, 20247 min read


Why
So this one is kind of fluffy (which seems to be a bit of a theme at the moment), but I think I have finally, after 35 years, figured out...
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Jun 16, 20243 min read


Tell Me A Story
Humans are brilliant at telling stories. Today I came across a Facebook post from a woman who was seeking reassurance that the...
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May 26, 20243 min read


I'll Know It When I Find It
Among my fun neuro-alternative traits are my inclination to throw myself headlong into a new interest and sometimes to drop an old...
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Mar 30, 20244 min read


... and Buckskins.
At some point in your life, if you are kind of lucky, you find yourself asking 'why can't I have what I like just because I like it?'. I...
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Mar 1, 20244 min read


Moving the Goal Posts
When I started making moves toward riding again, my goal was to one day ride a dressage test. My main obstacle in this regard, or so I...
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Feb 11, 20243 min read


The Broken Rider
When you're around horses for a long time, you eventually find yourself in a place where you can cope with a less well-adjusted or even...
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Jan 2, 20244 min read
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